Begum's Mind

My girl likes to sabotage our love...   - Wale, "Sabotage",  2011   So, I will hit this topic from two POVs: single and taken. Self-sabotaging can happen whether you are single and mingling or already in a relationship; It doesn't discriminate. __________ You ever sit back and wonder, " Damn, is it me? Am I the reason this shit isn't working or am I just not accepting bullshit?? Am I just too picky?! " Yup, I'm sure you have, and I am also sure you couldn't come to a conclusion during your talk with yourself. It's okay, we have all been there. Once again, I'm here to talk about the shit we sometimes keep in our heads (because you're not alone!). So, you've met someone new and you have standards and expectations you want met. You failed with the last person, and the person before that, oh, and the one before that and you're thinking maybe you're being too lenient, or maybe you're not being strict enough on t